Best friend and love for life

I Can Speak

English, French, Spanish, Other

I Would Describe Myself As

Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.

I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...

Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.

1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.

2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.

3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.

4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.

5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.

6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.

7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)

8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.

9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)

10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)

11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Belly Button Ring

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

Painter

I Live

Alone, With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?

I've Always Wanted To Try

Jumping

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

My Denomination Is

Non-Denominational

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Dramas, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fiction, History, Instructional, Music, Political, Reference, Poetry, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...

or, coffee

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...

Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

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