Best friend and love for life
cafekid
Fresno, California | Femme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais, Français, Espagnol, Autre
Je me décrirais comme
Whenever you feel angry, sad, depressed, resentful, or less than, make a gratitude list.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
I could write a book about myself, my personality, things I've done, places I've been too...but so what? I'll send that to a publisher...
Here's a list of...Just a few things I'm grateful for...and perhaps, if nothing else, it will remind the reader of things they are grateful for, too.
1) My 19 yr old son, who is super cool, supportive of my dreams and goals, as I am his. And... his amazing brilliant brain.
2) I have a roof over my head, it's a nice roof, in a nice neighborhood. It's quiet, and pretty.
3) I am grateful for a handful of really good friends and another handful of pretty good friends, all of which care about me and I love so much.
4) I have work, I GET TO work...doesn't matter if it's fun, or not, (fortunately, I like everything I've done, and do. lol) I get to make a living. This is good.
5) I can, and do, eat really good food. I'm blessed (and my guests, too), that I know what to do with it.
6) My health may not be perfect but I'm in pretty good health. I can walk, I can talk, I can run, I can see, I can hear. I have tons of energy. I'm grateful for my health, it's pretty darn good.
7) I have my spiritual family, my AA family, biological family, and friends...A team, doing life with me. I don't control life and it doesn't control me. (Liberating! at least!) The more on my team the better. (Everyone should think of the healthy people in their lives as their support, their team. It's like armor...Let the toxic people fall off)
8) I am grateful for the tools to learn what healthy boundaries are and how to enforce them, NOT THE MOMMA! NOR THE SLAVE! which means PEACE! Dang! I'm grateful to have Peace! (Work with my hands, live a quiet life, and mind my own business) Love is an action word, it isn't self-serving, it doesn't manipulate, it isn't jealous, it isn't controlling, it's freely given.
9) I'm grateful to be able to go back to school, that I live close enough to one, to walk. (because I love to walk and ride my bike) Never too old or too young to learn, stretch, and grow. Stretch and grow baby, stretch and grow. (smile and nod)
10) I am the most grateful to God, that he never gives up on me, and that I cannot earn His love. He's a better driver and I'm safe in the passenger seat. I no longer feel the need to drive...(metaphorically speaking)
11) I'm also SOOO grateful that He's giving me the tools to live life Sober, (April 3 will be 2 yrs.) and that I GOT IT, while I'm still young enough to have a life. It's a good life...a very good life. I like to keep things simple.
Signe
Sagittaire
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
En forme
Ma taille est
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mes yeux sont
Bleus
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Célibataire
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Pas sûr/e
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Anneau au nombril
Mes cheveux sont
Marrons
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat, Chien
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Oui
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes secondaires incomplètes
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Construction / Artisanat
Mon titre de fonction est
Painter
Je vis
Seul/e, En colocation, Avec des animaux
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Non
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Mal-aimé/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Observateur, Ouvert
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Faire de l'exercice, Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Films, Famille, Dîner , Photographie, Religion/Spiritualité, Théâtre, Voyages, Cuisine, Jardinage, Camper, Bénévolat
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Dormir, Sports extrêmes, Lire, Se déguiser, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date?
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Jumping
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Obscur/e, Neuneu
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma Dénomination est
Sans qualificatif
Je vais à la messe
Une fois par semaine
Mon but dans la vie c'est
To educate, serve, invest in, and learn about, as many people as possible, in my lifetime. To live everywhere on the planet...okay, not quite realistic LOL how bout, a few places on the planet? hehe
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e, Bouffon
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Actualités, Dessins animés, Drames, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Drames, Animation
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Rap, Rock, Metal, Electro, Pop, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Indus, Latino, Musique ambientale, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Actualités, Autobiographies, Biographies, Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Fictions, Histoire, Programmes instructifs, Musique, Politique, Œuvres de référence, Poésie, Ouvrages techniques
Mon idée du fun
Picnic on top of a parking garage, snapping pics along railroad tracks, climbing a big rock...
or, coffee
or, coffee
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Talents, Empathie, Sensibilité, Audace, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Bon sens, Délicatesse
Que recherchez-vous?
No need to respond if you smoke, drink, drug, are younger than 34 or older than 45. I'm sure there are a whole bunch of really good guys in some of those, but I know what I want and what I don't want.
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
A clean, sober, kind, laid-back Christian guy that's not self-absorbed. Also, a man who wants to/is not afraid to, travel, and sometimes live in other countries, do some humanitarian work, etc...
Also, everyone has some of this or that...history, baggage, weird stuff, whatever...TODAY are you healthy? or at least pursuing health? TODAY are you honest? Are you seeking truth? Are you owning your own shit? or blaming others for it? or...Are you toxic to yourself and/or others, moving forward or living in the past? Are you a part of the problem? OR Part of the Solution?
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Engagement