I am intense, paradoxical, and reading
charitynicole
Albuquerque, New Mexico | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I have been on several secular dating sites for years now and it's just not going well. I recently read "An Unlikely Disciple: A Sinner's Semester at America's Holiest University" and it really got me thinking about the kind of man I am looking for.
I was raised in a very Christian home and while I have certainly wandered from the nest regarding faith, I can feel myself craving God.
My beliefs are very liberal when it comes to Christianity. I subscribe to the God is Love way of thinking. So if you have serious right-wing political agendas and consider yourself intolerant of anything that doesn't fit into your preconceived notion of Christianity... we probably will not get along. I have little interest in the personal lives of others and try not to judge anyone for their personal choices. HOWEVER (and this may sound odd) I have had success dating 'conservative leaning' men who maintain a sense of disapproval (rather than hate) for what they don't agree with.
I am a huge fan of sarcastic, quick-witted banter, and fast-paced conversation. I am very competitive and like teasing in a playful way. I can sometimes be offensive without meaning to be. If you know who Psalty is you probably rock... I have all of these hilarious (and kind of disturbing) memories of the Christian kid's shows my parents entertained me with when I was young and meeting others from the same background always thrills me.
I am trying to get to a point where I live up to my name. I was named for I Corinthians 13 and it is my goal to someday be this Charity. Til then I am just myself. I just moved here from Las Vegas, NV and I would very much like to meet some great people and join a good church. My only days off are Wednesday and Thursday though, so options seem kind of limited.
Also, I am a single mother of a one year old boy named Talon, so if you aren't interested in single moms... keep looking.
I was raised in a very Christian home and while I have certainly wandered from the nest regarding faith, I can feel myself craving God.
My beliefs are very liberal when it comes to Christianity. I subscribe to the God is Love way of thinking. So if you have serious right-wing political agendas and consider yourself intolerant of anything that doesn't fit into your preconceived notion of Christianity... we probably will not get along. I have little interest in the personal lives of others and try not to judge anyone for their personal choices. HOWEVER (and this may sound odd) I have had success dating 'conservative leaning' men who maintain a sense of disapproval (rather than hate) for what they don't agree with.
I am a huge fan of sarcastic, quick-witted banter, and fast-paced conversation. I am very competitive and like teasing in a playful way. I can sometimes be offensive without meaning to be. If you know who Psalty is you probably rock... I have all of these hilarious (and kind of disturbing) memories of the Christian kid's shows my parents entertained me with when I was young and meeting others from the same background always thrills me.
I am trying to get to a point where I live up to my name. I was named for I Corinthians 13 and it is my goal to someday be this Charity. Til then I am just myself. I just moved here from Las Vegas, NV and I would very much like to meet some great people and join a good church. My only days off are Wednesday and Thursday though, so options seem kind of limited.
Also, I am a single mother of a one year old boy named Talon, so if you aren't interested in single moms... keep looking.
Sign
Scorpio
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are
Black
My Ethnicity Is
Hispanic/latino
My Marital Situation Is
Never Married
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
Yes
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Belly Button Ring, Secret Piercings
My Hair Is
Black
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
High School Diploma
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Professional PetStylist
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Boisterous, Observant, Anti-social, Comedic, Flirtatious, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Reading, Learning, Movies, Internet, Family
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum
I've Always Wanted To Try
horse back riding
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Troublemaker, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Denomination Is
Non-Denominational
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To open my own very upscale, very edgy pet styling salon in Portland, Oregon or Seattle, Washington... or anywhere else that is not New Mexico.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Dramas, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is
When I am alone I will usually find my way to a book store. I can spend hours there. Other than that, I'm still trying to figure out what fun there is to be had in New Mexico.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Boldness, Oddities, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
I have a natural propensity for tall, dorky white guys who might look a little goofy. For me, it's all about personality. I hate having to drag a conversation along, I want fast-paced, quick-witted banter, playful teasing, someone with opinions on everything. I NEED intelligence from a man. Also, if you don't read... you won't keep my interest long.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Committed