The Real Deal!

I Would Describe Myself As

Hello! I have a couple dents in my fender & a couple rips in my jeans...at this age, who doesn't?!! I have been blessed to work in a field for over 20 years that I love...so much so, I am working on my doctorate! Christ is moving in my life, everyday! Miracles happen! I am focused, determined and have standards. I have tried other dating match services, only to be disappointed, so I'm giving this a whirl...seems like the Christian/church/religion part scares them away...besides the job, my kids, my education. If you are secure, not ego centered, a true Christian man who knows how to treat a woman, give me a hit. I am a woman who has God in my heart & at the center of my life that I live with my children. They are with me a majority of the time (their dad lives out of state) and are in elementary school...I'm layin it all out there! I have nothing to hide, so ask me anything! I have a great sense of humor (who wouldn't at this age, kids and work?!) I love my church and am active in it. My children are active also, not only in church but with the lives we lead.
I am looking for someone who loves God, makes Him center. Who is a compliment to myself as I am to him. Someone who is willing to go the extra mile in all areas, even if it is the most difficult areas. I am looking for someone who is secure in themselves. I have found that if you have not been to college, in what I do, and where I am in life, it is very important. I value education. I am academia based. No doubt. I am God based. It is HE who has me on this path! I love to listen to all types of music! All types (so some of you may be offended, sorry). I am down to earth, tree hugger/recycler Moderate Conservative Republican...if that isn't an oxymoron I don't know what is! ha ha ha! Hope you have enjoyed reading my description! Have a blessed day & I hope you find your match! :-)

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Family Specialist/Addiction Counselor

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Boisterous, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cars, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Nice dinner and conversation.

I've Always Wanted To Try

...not sure, I have been blessed to have tried a lot of different foods, & have been to a lot of neat places...can't think of anything in particular right now...am open to new adventures!

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy

My Denomination Is

Methodist

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

Is to have raised my children properly, with God's guidance. May they be positive, God loving contributors to this world He has made. Beyond that, to have made a positive impact on the lives I have touched for eternity.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Situation Comedies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Health, Reference, Religious

My Idea Of Fun Is

hangin with friends, cooking out in the back yard, having a bon fire, shopping at the mall, going out to dinner, digging into church and small group work, doing my homework, completing tasks, watching my kids in their activities!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Great Skills, Wit

What Do You Look For?

A God loving man, who loves his children, family & friends with no reservations. Someone who is secure in themselves. Someone who is not afraid to pray aloud with others. A man who is a man. Who knows how to treat a woman. Someone with no hidden agendas. Someone who can admit the past mistakes, learn from them and not repeat them. Someone who is at a stage in their life that they are ready to be with one woman forever.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed