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stragglewise

Red Deer, Alberta | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I am pretty quiet. A listener and observer. I have a dry and low-key sense of humour. It may take awhile to know me, but you also won't get quickly bored of me. I am a man of integrity and have a keen radar for what is real and true and what is not. I detest religion (and religiosity), but know more and more that without Him I can do nothing, and the Word of God is my compass and anchor and a lamp for my feet. I have made mistakes and had a lot of tribulation, but have learned to respond properly to them, and they have shaped and tempered me, and I am not easily shaken by anything. I love the mountains and I miss my ex-dog. I believe that incredible things are around the corner. There is a plan and a purpose beyond what I could ever imagine, and I believe it stronger every day. And I believe that our Kingdom inheritance is available now. I don't believe that any person is responsible to make another happy, but I think if 2 believers are right together, they will help one another see their true and full identity, will be better and stronger together than the sum of their parts, and their life will be an amazing adventure. I am a chipper person, but I hate Churchianity, and think being a disciple of Christ has very little to do with gathering in a building once a week.
Well, this is probably long enough, for a guy who claims to not have a lot to say... :)
Sign
Gemini

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Separated
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Hands
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes

More about him

How often do you read the bible?
As often as possible
Do you go to Confession?
No
Have you been through confirmation?
No
Have you been baptized?
Yes

Status

My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No

Personality

My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Fire Starter
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Photography, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Travel, Camping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Trying New Things, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
walking trails with coffee
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Obscure

Views

My Denomination Is
Non-Denominational
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
to walk in true freedom with someone in the fullness of our calling
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, I'm A Recording Artist, Jazz, Gospel, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, History, Humor, Instructional, Music, Political, Reference, Religious, Satire, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
trekking with a camera, driving through the mountains or somewhere new, playing/recording music

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
You have to laugh at my jokes, haha. Well, it's like the triangle thing, with God at the top. And a 3-fold cord is not easily broken. I think it is dangerous to have expectations of someone. I think a mature person knows what is important to the other, generally. It is hard to be with someone (and the someone will never be happy either) who is always more concerned with what they might not be getting than how they can serve the relationship. If the latter is the focus of both people, the rest happens naturally. Well, it's a happy thought, anyway...
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Doesnt Matter, Committed